I broke down and asked for help. For several months now, Iâ€™ve been convinced that I could do it all. I could be the housewife, the super mom, the great hostess, the avid gardener, the available volunteer and a successful writer. Something had to give.
After praying about it, I decided to ask a friend if she wanted to start coming around once a week to clean the house â€“ the weekly stuff like mopping and dusting, along with the big projects like organizing the boysâ€™ closet. After all, she said she ENJOYED cleaning and that she thought God had gifted her in that area.
See, I can clean. God has been working (and itâ€™s been an uphill battle the whole way) to get me to where I can do it. But I would never say I ENJOYED it.
Before I had a chance to bring the subject up, she announced that God had directed her to get a job. â€œHmmmmm,â€ I thought to myself. So after everyone else left, I asked and she said yes â€“ quite enthusiastically.
So now I have help.
The thing that you have to know about working at home is that it REQUIRES you to delegate. There just arenâ€™t enough hours in the day to get it ALL done. Iâ€™ve tried. Look at your life and see what you can bless others with doing. It may surprise you that your children, or friends, or parents, or spouse actually want to help out. Even more surprising is that they are often gifted in the area that you enjoy the least â€“ if you would just give them a chance.
If you are serious about working from home, you have to be willing to ask for help. Take some time to look at your obligations and see which ones you can give away.
What I Learned Today
Sitting here writing this I thought â€œmy husband is a gifted cleaner and organizer.â€ But he spends most of his time working in the yard. Why? He does it because itâ€™s manâ€™s work and thatâ€™s what is expected of him. To make it even more interesting, heâ€™s allergic to pollen. Just the thing you need if you are going to be out mowing, huh? I think Iâ€™ll share this thought with him. Maybe if we all worked where we were gifted and talented instead of where â€œtheyâ€ told us we needed to be then our homes and our lives would be more peaceful.