Who is Effecting You?

It was pouring down rain, I was running behind, there were errands yet to be run and I needed cash. My only bank branch was fifteen minutes out of the way. I decided to kill two birds with one stone and get cash back at the drug store after I picked out a few items.

I ran through the rain, ran through the store gathering up my wares and was at the register in record time. Then the trouble started. I swiped, but nothing happened. I swiped a second time and there was still no response. Now a line was beginning to gather behind me. “Um, it won’t take my card.” The lady behind me sighed loudly to be sure I understood her contempt for the situation.

“I’ll just swipe it back here.” The cashier snatched my card and had it through the machine before I could think.

“Oh, I need cash back.”

“I can’t do that now.”

“But I have to have cash back. It was the whole reason I stopped in the first place.”

The impatient (and now annoyed) woman behind me snapped, “Can they check me out in the back?” She had now been waiting in line for approximately 60 seconds. She spoke over me again to the cashier. “She could just go to the ATM.”

And here is where I wish I could just go back in time. If I could, I would turn to the rude woman behind me and smile politely. “No ma’am, I can’t just go to the ATM. If I could just go to the ATM then that is what I would have done in the first place. But there are no ATM’s in this area for my bank and all the ATM’s in this area charge me two or three dollars just to use them. I’m extremely tight on budget at this point in my life and I don’t have an extra two or three dollars. I chose to stop at this store because I knew I could get cash back and I knew it wouldn’t cost me any extra to do it. I needed the cash to be able to stop at another store that only takes cash before it closes in just a few minutes. But seeing as how you are obviously in so much of a hurry that you don’t mind being cold, insensitive and rude to someone you don’t even know, I will gladly step aside and let you go before I work this out with the cashier.”

It would have been comforting to me to be able to say. But it isn’t what I said. Instead I just took my stuff, slithered out to my car, got out at the nearest ATM (in the pouring rain) and paid the fee (which meant cutting my budget for that week). The rudeness she threw at me threw me off.

Standing in that rain, I saw her drive past. It would have been easy to throw a few curses her way (and to mean them), but I wasn’t going to let her steal my joy on top of my two dollars. The world is always looking for ways to make people miserable. It’s too easy to fall into their trap. Instead of being effected by the negatives of the world, stay focused on the good, the positive, and the uplifting and you will be able to rise above any person or situation that comes your way.

Still, it would be nice to have a time machine in situations like this.

Kathryn Lang

#Hope builder. #Dream inspirer. Master of “it’s all about #relationships.” Aficionado of inappropriate laughter, Kathryn Lang believe we can all fly and works to help others find the time to make their dreams come true. She shares with people that are trying to walk the tightrope of family, work, and faith – and keep them all in the right balance. Contact Kathryn today to speak or teach at your next event.

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