If you want to then you will. When we really want something or really feel like we have to do something then we make a way. It becomes a priority and we do what we have to do to make it happen. If you aren’t where you want to be then ask yourself if it is really what you want.
It had been a rough few months with shifts, changes, bumps, and bruises (with more than a few twists through in). My get up and go just got up and went but it also took my focus with it. Nothing seemed to be going the way I had planned or wanted.
“I want to get decorated for Christmas.” I made the announcement to the house so that everyone would rush in and decorate. Even though I wanted the house decorated, I didn’t want to have to decorate the house.
That’s not the first time I’ve had that happen. I want to do something but I don’t want to have to do that thing. I end up looking around on a different day and realizing that I didn’t want it enough to put my will behind it.
If there is a will, there is a way. If the will isn’t there then the excuses will begin to line up.
Get Want Going with Will
- Be honest with self – it’s great to dream and wish, but if you are going to get your will behind the want then you have to be honest about what you are going to do to get there. It will take action that you have to do. It will take sacrifice that you have to surrender. Knowing that you have to do and have to give, what do you really want?
- Be realistic with expectations – understand what the results will mean. You may be able to write a book and sell a book, but it won’t pay the bills due tomorrow. You may be able to change your diet and add in some exercise, but it won’t get the weight gone by tomorrow. Knowing that it will take time, what do you really want?
Be dedicated to the target – be convinced about your possibility so much so that nobody can talk you out of it. It may not happen the way you want and the world will try to block your actions, stop your actions, or even convince you can’t. You have to be grounded so deep in your target that all the things thrown at you don’t shake you. Knowing that things will come against you, what do you really want?
You can do it but it will be up to you. You can want all day long, but until you put energy behind the wants they will just be words and ideas. If you want to reach your desires and breathe life into your BIG DREAM goals then you have to find you ways to drive want with your will.
Move from Want to Will
Let’s get started today bringing your BIG DREAM goals to life!
I can coach you through the process of finding your unique focus.